You and someone else are standing 10 feet apart.
Oh, and you’re blindfolded.
With each step you can choose to go North, South, East or West.
The chances bumping into each other are tiny - in fact, with each step you’re just moving further and further apart.
After 100 steps you take your blindfolds off.
Would you beat yourself up over who is standing where ?
Of course not.
Replace the steps with the minute by minute choices you make as to where to invest your time, energy and emotion.
And replace the 100 steps with your life so far.
Now, is it any more logical to compare where you and they are now…?