The Two Routes To Growth...
I think that there are two main routes to growth - learning from experience, and learning before you experience.
For most of my adult life, the balance was very much tipped towards learning from experience - make a mistake, learn not to do it again, repeat. It has taken a while to get here, but these days I try to do most of my learning before I begin - reading, asking, listening and watching all help to anticipate and hopefully overcome the challenges that will inevitably arise.
There are still plenty of mistakes but, if this makes sense, learning before I make them makes for making better mistakes…