What do you NEED ?
To get from here to there, what is it that YOU need to do - not ‘what do you want to do’.
To move closer to your goal, what resources do you need, and how can you get them - not what resources do you wish you had, or wish the world would gift to you ?
To achieve your big ambition, what support do you need - not what support would be nice and would make you feel better.
What we WANT is at best irrelevant and at worst destructive. Better, then, to concentrate our efforts on working out exactly what we NEED…