Give it more time...
If I look back over my life, every event that upset me, every raw emotion that I felt, every loss that I’ve experienced, and every setback that knocked me off track has defined who I am now.
At worst I’ve come to accept all of those events, but if I’m truly honest, most of them have led to something better - a positive change in my life, or a positive change in me.
It just took time.
So if you can’t see the positive yet, then maybe you just need to give it more time…