The benefit of the doubt...
They’re not trying to upset you. In fact (and I mean this in the nicest possible way), they’re probably not even giving you a second thought. They’re just trying to do the best that they can. In the most difficult of times. With a head as full of thoughts as yours.
So give them a break. And the benefit of the doubt. Or maybe even a helping hand. Because you’d want them to give you those too, wouldn’t you…?