We want it to be someone’s fault, because then we don’t have to admit we could have done more.
We want someone to fix it for us, because then we don’t have to face the challenge ourselves.
We want to find a shortcut, because then we won’t have to do the hard work.
We want to see someone else’s bad behaviour, because then we don’t have to do the right thing.
When we look for the negative we will find it, every single time.
So maybe we should simply stop looking, or at least be ready to learn from whatever we find….